What matters?

I've tried all my life to please people around me. Everything I do matters so much.. It affects many... 

• Have you ever wondered why our little brain thinks so much before every little thing that we do?
• Why do we think about what people will think?
• Why does it matter to us?
• Don't we have th right to what we like, irrespective of what others think?
• Why should we always oblige to others?

Alright! After all these questions in the very beginning of the blog, you would definitely expect answers too. Well, I may not have an answer to every single question but I do have my own point of view...

         Okay! Now, the "others" i mentioned are not really "others"... They are people to whom we are somehow connected! We actually care about what they think about us, even though we keep denying the fact! So does that mean we don't have a choice but to do things their way? Errr.. I'll say NO!

          C'mon! It's my life after all... How long will I try hard to please others  and do stuff ONLY for the? When do i please myself? When can i have no one to please but myself? I have my own choices to make and i can take my own decisions and will do things my way! Another thing i've learnt i9s that I won't do stuff just coz everybody is doing it! I'll do it only when i feel it's right.. I have nothing to do with what the world thinks as long as i'm right!

          I know i sound pretty rebellious unlike earlier but I don't wanna mislead ya'll by saying all this! It doesn't mean you'll now hurt people all the time by disobeying them and by doing "wrong things" (You know and can differentiate between wrong & right) Don't turn into a brat! Just be heard! Let people know what you think... Have fun... Live life king size... No room for tears, nobody is worth our tears (they are precious)! Smile... Smile a lot... (Don't worry, people won't call you mad)...

One last advice: What people think is not really important! Just remember, your conscience is there! You know what you are doing.... Don't do any such thing for which you'll have to repent later! :)

P.S. Thanks Mum and Dad! I really love ya'll for being there and supporting me in everything i do! :)