Thursday, July 28, 2011

Slut walk!


  The argument on “slut walk” seems to be never ending! Everybody has their own perception about stuff, I have mine too… But before I put it forward, I’d like to elaborate a little more on how slut walk started! Well, Slut Walk was first held in Toronto this year after a police officer outraged women world over when he said in a speech to university students "women should avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be victimized." What started, as a protest in one city has spread over 60 cities worldwide to bring attention to society's penchant to blame victims of sexual assault by saying they were asking for it!



 I personally support the whole motive of slut walk. Some person on the streets has no right to decide what I should wear. And I would consider this (slut walk) an opportunity to prove to the prudes that a woman’s integrity is in her heart and not in what she wears. A woman should be able to do exactly what she wants to do to feel emancipated... it's her body, her choice. But when people talk about the way women dress, is it that ONLY skimpily clad women are victims of nasty comments and sexual assault? NO! Even women who dress in saris or not so revealing clothes are harassed!


 Showing a little skin, some say sexy and others say it’s asking for trouble. Somebody made a comparison and quoted, “It’s like placing a bowl of rice in front of a hungry beggar and asking him to keep his hands off it.”! Well, it’s evident whom the hungry beggar and rice are compared to, but I’d like to specify that a hungry beggar craves for rice irrespective of whether it’s sealed in a box or kept open in a plate! NO girl wants or asks for the kind of crude attention and harassment that is doled out and clothes are not rape proof! So I guess it’s time to blame the rapists for rape!
Physical abuse is considered physical abuse in any part of the world! If the consequence of a woman stepping out of the house would be one among rape, physical abuse or sexual assault, then what has to be done? Are women born to sit at home? Why should there be some or the other people present to protect a woman from men? Don’t men have social values? Too many questions, isn’t it? Well, many such unanswered questions arise in the mind of every girl. Well, not all men think that slut walk is a treat to their eyes, there are a few who are concerned about the motive behind the movement. I heard a guy quoting, “She shouldn't have to hang out with me just to feel safe”! That’s comforting!
                According to me, a slut walk should be organized at every city where people think it’s women who provoke the men to assault them! The Slut walk has been branded a 'social movement', which has seen participation of women from all walks of life walking for the cause in the last two months.



  In the capital of our very own country, it (slut walk) was called the “Walk to Liberation”. If that could make a change in certain people’s mindsets then I’m sure most people would agree to it! I definitely say it out loud that organizing a slut walk in other cities of India is very relevant! A hell yeah to it!

P.S.
My article about Slut Walk in the magazine (Campus Josh)

Sunday, July 17, 2011

I'm in LOVE! : Part-2

*In this post, "YOU" does not refer to the person reading it* :P               
So... Like i already mentioned, I'm officially in love! I finally confessed!

Okay! I love you! :)

             I don't know where to start from, cause may be i love everything about you! Probably, i can best describe you as my first LOVE which never faded and never will... You make me feel so special. Everything you say, everything you do, every moment spent with you is so perfect! Somehow.. everything feels so right when you're around! There's magic around you that makes me hold on and i wouldn't let it pass away. Well, the amazing person that you are, it's an uphill task for me to jot down things I love about you.. May be i'll just say, I can't see a reason NOT to love you! It's a state of bliss, i feel like i'm dreaming...
             I'm more than just glad that you're a part of my life, an essential and inseparable one! I love the way you pamper me.. I love how to take me in your arms when i mess up, i feel so safe not a single tear.. I love your smile.. I love you when you call my name.. I love every every everything about you! When everything seems to be going wrong and I don't know where to you, you bring me back again.. I would never do anything to let go the faith you have in me.. And everything i do or say, i'm more concerned about how you'd feel or what you'd say than anything else... 
             You're the reason for my existence today! I can't imagine what i'd be if you weren't there.. Slowing down, i look around and i'm so amazed. My life would feel so incomplete without you.. Whom would i share every incident in my life with? Whom would i take a long walk with? Who would listen to all the boring stuff i say? Who would let go their sleep just to make sure i slept well? I'm sure there's nobody who can take your place in my life..
             I can take anything but separation from you! You make my life look so perfect.. I think about the little things that make life great, i wouldn't change a thing about it.. It's so beautiful, it makes me wanna cry! This is the best feeling... May be it's the happiness inside that i'm feeling! I thank you with all my heart for every little thing you've done so far.. Nothing has ever gone unnoticed! I love you, for everything!
I'm not sure you know, but the reason i love you is YOU being YOU!

I love you, MOM!
Thanks for being there!

P.S. Sorry if i disappointed the readers, who expected something else! :P
P.P.S. Love you too, DAD! :)