Think!

           It usually happens that we envy our peers or others for something that they posses and we don't. But we fail to think that we eventually are others for somebody else! Not everybody gets exactly everything that they wish for... Hmmm... one can never be contended with what they've got! Happens! It's human tendency to desire for more...
           Lets assume, there are a set of people who wish to be rich and envy their friends who already are! Fair enough! So, instead of putting all these thoughts in a wrong way and developing negative feelings for those friends, WORK HARD! Think Positive! For that matter, may be if that friend wasn't there, that person might not have got the thought of being rich! Well, such things one can change or achieve!
           What about times when one is not satisfied with his/her looks? A dark person may long to have a fairer complexion, while a fair person might wanna have beautiful features! Somebody who has short hair might love to grow their hair (that hardly grows) and somebody with really long locks might wanna cut it short and get that short hair look! A short person may wish to grow taller and a tall one might be sick of it (last bench in every class)...
             Can one ever be satisfied with what God has given? You got your share, while the others got their's... You should remain the way you are, don't let the world bother you! Wake up every morning and make sure you tell that person in the mirror.. "You are very beautiful!" That's coz you are.... It hardly matters what the rest of the world thinks about you. All that matters is what you think and believe in...
              Stop cribbing over things that you don't have, instead feel proud about what you are... But make sure you still stay grounded!

Who cares?

            All of you must surely have one such person around who cries very often. And most of you do know people whom you call a "CRY BABY"! It's just a part of fun to tease them... Cat-calling and making people who cry the prime topic of the jokes is definitely easy..! But do you ever think how that person feels? Most of us don't...
             It usually happens that when a person cries in front you for the first time, you try to console him/her... you do it even the second time. But why do you stop caring when the person cries for the 10th or 15th time? How does the number of times the person has cried matter? I really don't get it... You tend to feel bad even when a person you care for cries for the 100th time.... I don't understand how people manage to say "Huh! He/She keeps crying. Leave it alone.." Whoa! What a thing to say!
            Have you ever put yourself in that person's shoes? Stuff that hurts him/her need not seem appealing to you (You are not him/her).
            Hmmm... I don't know what exactly to write in this space but do remember, when somebody is weeping or feeling low... It's neither the time to show your bad attitude nor to count the number of times that person has cried! Well, if you don't care... then don't pretend like you do... coz at that moment it may make that person feel better but when you don't show the same amount of care the next time, it hurts even more! But then if you do care... just chuck all those stupid thoughts and think what you can do to cheer that person  up and make the moment lighter! Spread happiness..! :)

NOBODY'S PERFECT...!

             Are you perfect? Proof? :P Huh! You won't have.. well, i've heard this very stupid attitude quote that says "Nobody's Perfect... I'm NOBODY!" Whoa... I say "Crap!".
             We expect everybody else to be extremely perfect and never to go wrong. But when it comes to us, we should always be excused and when somebody gets pissed off at something that we did, we get extra upset (to the contrary)... coz most of us are so used to be pampered and treated  like "Your highness!". OMG! We live in a real world people and lets get used to the fact that the world hardly cares who you are (Unless you are a celeb or smthn)! You may be a princess/prince at home... but out of "Home Sweet Home", you are just another girl/guy!
              Well, when you can't be perfect yourself, isn't it terribly wrong to expect others to be complete perfectionists? Yeah..it is! The sort of behavior we expect from others is not always pleasing and as expected! Hmm... 
For example: YOU! You treat few people really well, make fun of few others and trouble the rest! Now, you can't expect the lot that you trouble, to treat you like an angel! They will never do that (And that's coz they are no angels either :P)... But then, you can surely expect that sort of sweet behavior from the people whom you treat well... That's coz... errr... remember Newton's Third Law? "Every action has an equal and opposite reaction"!
                 So now ya'll definitely know how to treat whom, don't you? If you want them to treat you nice then be nice to them... It's so much like GIVE RESPECT AND TAKE RESPECT! Don't expect every soul on earth to be perfect coz you yourself lack perfection in several aspects.. This whole behaviour thing is a pure "Barter System"! As i already said... Give and Take policy... :)

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Unexplainable Feelings!

                 You know that person is lying.... You know he/she hides the truth from you.... He/She makes you feel like your the only one he/she cares for and the very next moment he/she acts aloof like it doesn't matter whatsoever happens to you.... You know it hurts when that person is rude to you.... Your the only one who knows you are in pain....
                  Even then, you wait... Coz you can't let go! You keep waitin for the moment when he/she will confess the truth and might make an effort to sort stuff out! But how long? How long will you fake your feelings? How long can u possibly stick that plastic smile on your face? You can't lie to yourself for long, can you?
                  Everything has a saturation point! EVERYTHING! After that you can't help the situation, even if you wish to...
                  You would love having an ice-cream only before it melts... Once it melts, it's only the slime you can lick off your fingers... You still are eating the ice-cream but you don't enjoy the taste and it's not meant to be eaten that way either!
                   Don't wait for the right moment, there is nothing like that.. Go for it and make it the right moment! All i wanna say is... Don't test people's patience... Don't take anybody for granted (whosoever it may b)... Don't wait till things reach an yielding point and situations get out of your control... "Make hay while sun shines!" I know this saying may seem meaningless (Who would wish to make hay?). Well, lets not take it literally.. grasp the soul of the saying...
                   Ya'll might fail to understand why i blogged stuff like this out of the blue... Hmmm... I usually act before i think! That's where i mess up most of the stuff... Brooding over few such incidents where i screwed up and did exactly what i shouldn't have done, I really feel it's time to learn from all of it and mend my ways!
                   When people say "Never give explanations! People who understand you, will not need it and those who don't understand you are not worth it".. i say.. "Never say never"! Well, that's pretty true.. But lets face it, we are human beings! We ain't GODS! When things mess up (irrespective of whose fault it is), confront that person and try sorting things out... I can't guarantee that everything will become picture perfect but you at least made an attempt to do so... You'll be clear on your part and will feel better too..
                  So for all those people who messed up things and are waiting for the right moment, THIS IS THE RIGHT MOMENT! No room for EGO! There is nothing to wait for... Go for it!  Forgive and Forget! :)
KEEP SMILING...! :)

Height of STUPIDITY...

           Alright! Now, this is one really stupid thing i did when i was a kid. This happened a way back when i was in my 4th grade.
           Well, it was my birthday and my parents threw a lavish party for which, Dad got very pretty invitations printed! I had to invite my classmates for the do... I merrily distributed the invitations in the class but neglected two girls (Sruthi & Savita)... yeah... i still remember their names! err... Guess why i din't invite them... you could never guess! I'll tell ya'll... I shrugged off the idea of inviting them coz they couldn't manage to score good grades in class and i usually topped my class...
            I still can't believe how headstrong i was those days... huh! How could i do something so dumb! Well, then... i couldn't do much about it, i din't get a chance to apologize either .... that's coz i changed my school and moved to another city, thanks to my Dad... his job kept him going places and we accompanied him!
            Frankly, i've never repented for anything as much as i do for this. It was completely unintentional but that hardly matters coz it already happened... i can't change a bit of it... well, i could, only if i had a time machine... which i don't have! I don't know if these two girls even remember this incident, but i do and will.... Such things are hard to forget, aren't they?
            SORRY girls! Wheresoever ya'll are... :(
          

Great expectations...

             "You are a wonderful person!". Has anybody ever said that to you? Yeah? Then you definitely know how awesome it feels to hear that. My parents often say that to me. and i just love it! Err... who doesn't like to be complimented?
              Well, that's one side of it! With so many compliments showering over you, you should also remember that people have high hopes on you. you'll say "Big deal? who cares?". For all those who react that way... hmm... Yup, it is a big deal!
              With that happy feeling in your heart, you are also scared at the same time... that's coz you aren't really sure whether you will be able to stand up to all those expectations or not! You'll hardly realize, when that sweet-happy feeling turns into a fear that haunts you.... it may not happen with each one of you reading this but it definitely must've happen to few of ya'll... You all of a sudden feel burdened. You can't lt them down, can you?
              Now, that's when I know exactly what to do! well, not realy but this is what i do... Indulge in your favourite hobby! Feel proud of yourself that there are so many people around you, who feel you have some great potential to make it big! You definitely are a wonderful person. Recognize your talent, speak to your heart, listen to it!
              You kno what? Any motivating talk will boost your spirits only for a while... May it'll last for an hour or so.... YOU are the one who's gotta work things out and make it big! That day, all those people who were all praises for you will be the most happiest people! :)

One fine morning....

            It was the day after Diwali... I was sulking! Well, that's coz I had a stupid lab external to attend which is why i couldn't enjoy the crackers and I called myself "Eco-Friendly"! :P
           Hmmm.... I was walking to my bus stop, like evry other morning. On the way, I noticed a man who was sweeping the road! Poor guy!We people liter stuff all over the road... like papers from the crackers that most of us burn and people like the man i saw have to clean it up, neverthless, for us to dirty it all over again!
           Well, that day I don't know why I felt like smiling at him and also thought i coulad actually wish him a happy festival. Then i waited for him to look at me and when he did, I said "Happy Diwali..!". I still can't forget the way his face lightened up.... He smiled back and politely replied "Happy Diwali, beta!".... Awww.... After that day, every morning i looks at him, he smiles back and it lightens up my day....
           I don't know what's so exciting about me wishing an unknown person on the road but it feels so nice when i think of it... :D